I have stressed majorly over this whole incident, and thought long and hard about what I should do. I still feel terrible that one of my potential matches found this blog and wasn't pleased. I never really thought that any of my musings about dating life, via Match.com, would be read by anyone I was matched with, but......lesson learned.
I took Kate's advice (thanks Kate!), and changed my Match.com login. My girlfriend Daisy and I came up with a name that was fitting, and then googled the heck out of it to make sure that it NEVER pulled up my blog. It didn't. Thank heavens!
There is going to be a small adjustment to my blog though. I am ONLY going to focus on the positives of those people I may want to go out with. I'm really sorry that I screwed up with a certain gentleman, but again...lesson learned. If, however, someone messages me about wanting to dance the night away, having unbridled sex and never meet my friends or family I am going to feel free to tell you all about it :)
By the way.....I sent the gentleman who found my blog, and messaged me about his displeasure upon finding it, an apology. I know it won't make a difference, but I felt I owed him at least that. I felt better after sending it. Not absolved of all sins, but better.