Friday, April 30, 2010

Broken


TEN and I are no longer together.  It was nothing dramatic.  Neither of us did anything wrong.  It just wasn't meant to be I guess.

There is a man out there that will walk through my door one day and never leave.

I know that.

I believe it with all of my heart.

I just wish I could figure out how to explain it to Louis.



T

27 comments:

mrs.mfc said...

You and Louis are both going to be okay. I know things totally suck right now but things will slowly start coming back together. You have so many people around you to love and support you, and Louis has you :) You know that we are all here for anything that you need.

{and to be unsupportive for a second.. I think it is time to put away that snowman doormat}


{i love you}

anonymous prep said...

Oh T I'm sorry! :(

Leslie said...

Oh T, I'm sorry. But I have a feeling this wasn't a shock, it was coming on for some time? You're absolutely right when you say that one day the right man will walk in your door and not leave. Until then, enjoy Louis and your friends and know you're loved and prayed for daily!

Katie, Julep and Derby's Mom said...

Louis will always love you and give you westie kisses which is a wonderful way to heal your soul ...

I see you have a wonderful support group of friends. Take time for yourself and Louis ... and just 'be' for now ... don't waste time worrying, being sad, or crying - life is short, pick yourself up, brush yourself and enjoy life to the fullest.

suburban prep said...

You will know it when it comes through the door.
Wishing you all the best.

Jess said...

Oh my. I'm so sorry to hear this!! It's great that you have a huge support system, both in the blogosphere and through your friends in Smalltown, VA. If you ever need to talk or vent, I'm always here!

You're right - one day someone will come and stay in your life. And, I really do believe it will make all the heartbreak worth it!

Trish said...

Hey honey, just emailed you, I'm so sorry to hear this. It's all going to be good, I promise...I'm just sorry that you have to go through this now...hold on to Louis!! xox

(LOL @ Mrs. MFC's comment above!!)

Whitney and the Preppy Puppy said...

I'm so sorry, my dear. Breakups stink. I'm thinking about you and Louis.
xo xo, Whitney

Annie said...

Girl, this happened for a reason, whatever that may be. You'll find out when the man walks in your door to stay. While this doesn't make right now any easier, know that you are destined for someone better. You deserve it!!!! For now go buy a new purse or dress! :)

Bethany said...

I am so sorry to hear this news. Hugs to you and Louis. Someone special is meant to come in to your life in the future. xoxo

Wendy said...

I'm so sorry love! Sending a big hug to you and Louis across the internet. :)

xo Queen Bee xo said...

Hang in there lady!!
xox

Unlucky Lucy said...

Oh honey, I'm so sorry! I can't say anything to help, but just know that we're all rooting for you. You (and Louis) will be just fine in the end. We all need a happily ever after. Hugs and kisses to you both.

Miss Sweet Tea said...

Sad :( I'm sorry friend, but you are right, there is someone out there just for you and you will meet him one day! It's especially hard on the animals when a relationship ends. My ex took our dog and cat and I didn't even get to say goodbye to them. It makes me sad to think about not ever seeing them again, but I know they're being taken care of. And you and Louis will be there for each other, stay strong!

Vynuss said...

Oh honey, sorry to hear this! You are absolutely right... the right man will walk through those doors and never leave. I know it really sucks right now, but we all love you. And Louis too!!
You both will be fine, if not stronger from it. :) Hang in there! ((BIG HUGGS))
XOXO- Vy

Kim Reese said...

So sorry, sweetie. I know you and Louis will be fine and the right man will love you both the way you deserve! You have a great group of friends who will help you through this and you will find happiness soon! Until then, ((HUGS))!!

Calling_Rhonda said...

I am so sorry. Your outlook on the situation is wonderful, the right man will walk through your doors, and you will be the happiest woman EVER. That poor picture of Louis breaks my heart though...

Jenny DB said...

OH NO! i've been MIA and was so sad to just come and read this :( i'm really sorry that is no fun... what happened?

hang in there at least you have little louis. you will be fine and the right man will come along.. i am soooo sorry!

MCW said...

I am sorry...I know the feeling. xo

flip flops on lex said...

I'm so sorry. I hope Louis is a comfort to you during this difficult time. This too shall pass. Hang in there! <3

lauren said...

Let me know if you need anything...thinking of you! xo.

Dating is My Hobby said...

Oh my! I'm so sorry to hear that it didn't work out. Hopefully you were very happy together while it was good and that will be worth the sadness of the break-up. You will be strong, and I'm with you, the perfect man will come one day. If you need some inspiration, read Pioneer Woman. She has been my guidance to happiness lately. xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo

Michelle said...

I'm completely shocked. I am so sorry.

That man is out there for you. I believe it too.

Bumpkin on a Swing said...

So sorry to hear of your heartache. Take another pause, it will do you a word of good.

Suzy Sunshine said...

I love you.

So so so so much.

Laurnie said...

What?!?! (sorry, im playing catch up). Im sad :( But atleast it was a friendly thing. Take care of yourself

TudorCity Girl said...

Yes, there surely IS a man out there who will never walk away.
Always believe it.
I know the pain but know it is for a good reason in the long run- I am sure deep down you know that.
Doesn't make it any easier that first grueling month of a break up but in the future you will see it, understand it and you already see it was not meant to be.

That picture kills me.
I'm glad you have L. You're doing great from all I am reading on my catch up and you should be very proud.
Take care and treat yourself. Someday this will all make perfect sense.