****Side Note - Why do men think this is an attractive quality? Why do they all describe themselves as "laid back and easygoing"? This might be terrible of me, but when I read this the following equation comes to mind:
laid back and easygoing = lazy and unmotivated
I could be completely wrong. I realize that. However, in my past dating experience the guys that I would describe as laid back and easygoing have also been lazy and going nowhere. Aren't we all laid back at times? Aren't we all easygoing at times? But to describe yourself completely in this manner is probably not a good thing. AND....85% of the guys on match.com describe themselves this way. Blech!